Life Challenges and Someone

Life can become uneasy sometimes. There are problems faced by each one of us at one point of time or the other. They juice out our courage, bravery, strength and boldness to the core. Finding solutions to such problems is not always easy. They say, "Let your life float in the wind of your directional destiny", but is it really that easy to just let everything go with the flow? Looking for answers to the queries of your life may not be simple, but, calming the anxieties and depressions that occur at such difficult times is feasible.
Here is one related incident which knocked the doors of my life without any exploration efforts.


I was sitting alone one day in a park and was going through a bit trouble in my life that caused me to just sit on a bench for hours thinking about how miserable my life had become. Night was falling in and I was still there. People were coming in and out of the park for their evening walks. They would look at me and pass by. After sometime, a frail guy came up to me and said, "This is for you". The photograph that follows this post is the original piece of paper he had handed me at that time. It read: 'Whatever it is, don't let it beat you'. As I read these words, a smile showed up on my face. I knew it wasn't the frail guy who had written it. It was someone though. Someone who probably didn't know me but was concerned. From that day, I don't know why, but I have felt strong enough to face anything negative that comes my way. That little piece of paper brought my strength back. Just a little gesture from an anonymous writer and that has made a huge difference in my being. I never came to know about that person neither did he/she try to contact me anytime after that. The only thing that is left as a memory of this incident is humanity. The stocks of humanity haven't emptied as yet but maintaining them to their original level is our responsibility. Just spread it out then. Without NGOs, without memberships, without official volunteering sign ups; 'cause spreading a smile does no harm. Giving a helping hand might save a disaster in someone's life. Hesitation is a devil. Communicate and move out to make someone feel alive again.
The world is a good place.
#life #problems #depressions #helpinghand #help #humanity #world #smile

Feeling lazy?

Frustratingly sluggish mornings, noons and nights

Summers are here but you silently realise that it is not the season that affects your lazy attitude but something else. Something that has been following you like a hovering monster since the millennium Y2k era began. Have you ever thought what keeps you busy while you waste away your day lying on the couch? I asked this question from a few people, including youngsters, adults and older aged people, and got obvious answers like PSP, mobile phones, laptops, television, etc. Even your answers would tally with these. Today, we need everything to happen with a press of a button. There's remote control for everything these days and we have made ourselves accustomed to the habit of using one for all that we do. I explored this to be a major reason behind our sluggish mornings, noons and nights. Every morning seems like a Monday morning. The afternoons have become extremely sleepy as if you were a baby. The nights end with having 10 cups of coffee so as to reassure yourself of activity. The times before technology had crept in were the times of hard-work, body movement and relaxation that can never be felt now. 'Working hard' has now become 'hardly working' and that is only because of this thing I am typing into. Technology may have given us a few things but has taken away a lot more from us. I would want to experiment my life with just one hour of gadgets each day. For the rest 23 hours, I will go back to the 90s; play with clay, read books, paint pots and glasses, meet people (not on Facebook or Skype), write a bit, go cycling, learn cooking, take long walks into the greens, etc. It is a tough job for a person who sits around with smartphones and laptops for 99.9% of the day but I'll try and may be even encourage a few to give it a chance at least. Life may become less frustrating and more meaningful. Let's try being fully alive to each and every moment of what is left of our lives. #notech
#laziness #gadgets #smartphones #technology #sleepy #work #activity #quitgadgets #read #write #paint #cycle #walk #meetpeople #live #alive #notechmovement #notechroutine

Escapism: An unfulfilled dream

I wonder how everything we have around us still sticks to what it is despite the amount of impurity it holds. Nature says it will all end one day because of what is happening today. 90s are gone and gone are the times I used to have outdoors, messing around in the mud and not bothering about the hour for which I was allowed to watch tv. It is just society and its norms that rule the minds now. Just when I was about to give up on my dreams of becoming 'me', a destined knock came to the doors of my being. A friend put 'Into the Wild', an English  movie, in my pen-drive and forced me to watch it, though I had been avoiding the same for quite sometime 'cause I knew it would change me. Directed by Sean Penn, this movie is a biographical account of Christopher Johnson McCandless, popularly known as Alexander Supertramp. For a year that my friend bragged about this fellow, I felt he was a crazy man. I mean who on earth would want to burn all his money, abandon his car and trash out all his identifications just to go on an expedition in Alaska? 'Into the Wild' changed my take on Mr. Supertramp. There are great movies; there are great directors; and then, there are great stories. If I could ever pull in myself to escape and leave the superficial for the society to enjoy, I would die any day after that without regrets. Escapism is a tough thing. People used to curse hippies in the 90s and even today, many social sects don't accept them as sane beings. Escapism is not becoming a hippie. Christopher McCandless was not a hippie. Escapism for me is a gift from me to myself. Escapism is pure.
#IntotheWild #AlexanderSupertramp #Society #Escapism #Pure

TIPA: For the love of performing art

I was trekking towards Dharamkot which is set above Mcleodganj and corresponds to Bhagsu. I had no idea why I was going there and what is Dharamkot all about. But, mid-way towards this village I got a very interesting reason to tread further. It was TIPA- Tibetan Institute of Performing Arts. I entered the main gate to explore TIPA and to my delightful astonishment, I saw some students practicing for a musical play that was to be performed on 27th March, 2015 on the huge stage that the institute possesses. 'Shalang' was the name of the play and it was set with a background of Gautam Buddha's teachings. The traditional drums which were being played by professionals brought me goose bumps with their rhythm and enchanting sounds. Viewing such unexpectedly talented bunch of people was an admirable sight even as they were practicing casually. The people of Tibet are extremely inclined towards saving their heritage as they have lost a lot more than just a home in Tibet. TIPA is one such initiative towards accomplishing this goal. I believe each artist of TIPA will surely enrich India's culture as they gift us bits of theirs.

The Thangka Painter

On the way to village Bhagsu in Mcleodganj, Dharamshala, there are several small shops with beautiful artwork hanging in and out of the same. In one such shop I saw an old man working his skills on the canvas. His name is Tsewang Lhama. With a small pen like brush he was painting something very intricate. It was one of his Thangka paintings. Thangka is a fine art of Tibet. Thangka painting is so detailed and delicate that only a highly skilled artist can bring out the best of it. This Thangka artist is a Tibetan refugee and has been painting since he was 15 years old. His age is around 65 now; he couldn't remember the exact figure. The paintings he has at his shop are enormously beautiful. Every brush stroke is a hard work, not only of the hand but of the mind as well. Working with utmost concentration and dedication, Tsewang Lhama is a fine example of artistic excellence. While I was having a quick chat with him, he said, "I cannot see properly anymore. I have to wear these glasses to work now. This job has taken away my vision partially but I still work everyday." His smile while he said these words was one filled with satisfaction. This satisfaction surpasses the disappointment of getting a bare minimum remuneration for each of his paintings, that too with a considerable time lag. Though he has no country of his own and had to rebuild his family in India while losing most of the elderly members in Tibet, he is still contented and the credit for the same goes to the artwork that he is involved in. This is what keeps him happy. This has kept him going on without expectations of gaining 'freedom in exile'. 'Freedom in art' is his life's achievement. A salute to the Thangka Painter from a huge art-lover.

Kanya Daan: A Charity

'Kanya Daan', in literal translation means giving away your daughter in charity. In India, this is a highly revered ritual performed during weddings when the parents give away their daughters to the groom who is considered to be a form of God Vishnu. Now, offering the most precious possession of the parents to God Vishnu is supposed to wash out their sins. So what about the 'thing' you are giving away?
A girl is not a 'thing'. Girls are not 'possessions'. Girls are not to be given away in the name of charity or even as a 'gift'. Girls are humans just like men. Offering daughters as a gift to another family is not ethical. I am a Hindu and would never hurt the sentiments of the people attached to my community and others. But this is not what Hinduism teaches. In the Vedas, there is no mention of 'Kanya Daan'. No text, as old as the Vedas, would ever advocate this position of a woman in the society. All of this started in the medieval times when having an unmarried daughter was considered a matter of shame for the parents and apparently, women were to be protected by a bit more physically powerful section of the society comprising of men. Today, women have entered every field and have excelled in the same be it boxing, wrestling, engineering, sports, business etc. So why have such unwanted rituals sustained their position in our society till today? Marriage is the start of a companionship between two people who are equal. Men and women are equal. There is no point of considering one as a liability so as to transfer the same to someone else. A girl will always remain the daughter of her parents. Nothing about their relationship changes after her marriage. 'Kanya Daan' is just another way of suppressing women as they enter another phase of their lives and it is time that we stop considering them as a burden.
I speak against this ritual of being treated as a responsibility or a thing. I refuse to become a piece of charity. What about you?

Ram ki Holi

Whenever we speak of Holi, the love sparks of Krishna and Radha and of course the celebrations at Vrindavan immediately come to our mind. Holi celebration in Kullu is a bit different from other parts of India and that led me to asking my grandparents about the reason behind this difference. 'Ram ki Holi' is what I got as an answer to this. Lord Ram is the most important part of the spiritual lives of the people in Kullu. No festival is complete without his presence and even Holi is celebrated in Ayodhaya-style. The festival of colours is celebrated a day before it is rejoiced by the rest of the country. The day starts with neighbourhoods gathering to play Holi together. The traditional songs sung by the people showcase their emotional bond with their centuries old culture. Singing, dancing and enjoying local delicacies like stuffed Bhaturas and Siddus continues throughout the day. Evening sets in and people clean up well to attend  'Fag' at the palace of the King of Kullu. At most places in India, 'Holika dehen' is done on the night before Holi while in Kullu, this activity takes place after the day-long celebrations. At the palace, there are two piles of wood. One is dedicated to Lord Ram while the other belongs to God Narsingh who is considered the most powerful of all and is highly revered as 'Bda Devta' in the region. After a little puja at the temple of Lord Ram, his idol is carried by the priests in a 'palki' towards the pile of wood. The King of Kullu lights the same and Lord Ram, then, revolves around the fire. At the top of the burning heap there is a red cloth tied to one of the sticks with a few coins in it. The 'Mahants', a special clan in the town, have a battle among themselves to take that cloth out of fire along with the coins. After this is done, Lord Ram goes back to the temple and with that God Narsingh arrives at the palace ground. The same activity is performed around the other pile and this is how 'Fag' comes to an end. People take one burning stick from each of the two heaps to light the same in their kitchen. It is said that this would bring good luck to the household. The tradition and heritage of small towns like Kullu come alive at events like this. The magnificence with which this festival is celebrated in India is quite projective but exploring its intricacies in the remote areas instils great pride for our culture as well as for the people who have preserved it with their beliefs and devotion.